Problem-Solving
I can think of no problem these last few days that does not take all my concern and energy, but does not present a clear-cut dilemma. The fact of not knowing what it is, is the problem; for it is the intimacy of our present concerns which are relaxing, knowing that we may take hold of them, though they be ever so troubling.
Problems are often exterior; when they find a place within, we try to send them outside of us, make them a part of the world, but we should be kinder. The truth is, the further our problems go on, the more they trap us in a land that is completely foreign, helpless to put us at ease, weary and wearied by everyone. It is for this reason that we should keep our problems close, know them by name, and finally make them our friends. Isn't it true that when a friend brings us a problem, we may find the compassion necessary to overcome it? But how often are we concerned with the problems of those who pass us in the street?
The central and purest part of our understanding is made that way by the events, good or bad, that we must undergo; the ones that come to us form our character, the ones we push away and send out into the world degrade our, and all others', quality of life. We are all searching for clarity in the matter. With it, we no longer need outcomes or solutions; without it, no answer will ever please us. Watching someone solve a puzzle may certainly impress us, but when we ourselves do it, we bring forth the wisdom of the ancient sages; they, indeed, are our truest friends.
Douglas Thornton
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